Gratuitous overuse of the frog analogy

[geoviki]

A recent book review in our newspaper read:

Wallace Stegner writes ... that the difficulty with explicit sex in novels is that it invariably usurps all else that the author is attempting to accomplish:

"The trouble with excessive sexuality, in novels or in life, is that it is so compellingly interesting and attention-holding that it makes everything else seem tame or dull; it crowds off the page whole areas of human experience and human feeling that belong there but can't maintain their foothold."

Such is the case in Sue Miller's newest novel, Lost in the Forest. Although Miller's exploration of grief and self-discovery is both compelling and insightful, the sexual trysts of 16-year-old Daisy are so unforgivingly explicit that Miller's attempts to uncover the depth of who Daisy is are muddled by a nipple here and an arched back there....

I thought this over and decided that somewhere, I had crossed over to where this wasn't true for me. I've noticed that after reading fan fiction for nearly two years, I no longer find excessive sexuality all that distracting. It's like the classic analogy of the frog in slowly heating water: little by little, I no longer notice the erosion of my ability to be shocked, tittilated, or even surprised by graphic writing. I have become comfortably numb.

How about you?

Aside: Does anyone have an mp3 of Led Zeppelin's Stairway to Heaven that I can, er, borrow? Got it. Thanks, Paula!

Comments

[geoviki.livejournal.com]

Thanks! My husband has learned how to play it on the guitar but wanted to try accompanying the original song. Does every guitar student learn this? Because I was taught it, too, years ago.

[hearts-n-roses.livejournal.com]

I think they do...lol. I learned it when I played back in High School. It sounds pretty on the guitar.

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[auctasinistra.livejournal.com]

...to comment on not your main point.:)
"Stairway to Heaven" is so very much what every kid who learns to play the guitar learns that it's a kind of in-joke cliche among amateur guitar players -- the movie Wayne's World made a joke about it -- a placard on the wall in the guitar store saying "NO STAIRWAY TO HEAVEN." Particularly for those of us of a certain age, it was profoundly hilarious and dead on.

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[geoviki.livejournal.com]

Thanks for the Wayne's World joke - that was new to me! I had to run off and tell my husband.