Outside, It's America

Unload all you want in my direction. When I put my parents onto the train yesterday - they arrived on the 27th because my partner will not have them in the same house as the children if it can possibly be avoided, because the children got so scared by the temper tantrum which exploded a couple of Christmases ago because my father had forgotten what had been arranged about something and thought I was changing the arrangements without consulting him - it was a great weight off both of us. The word "Dementors" actually passed our lips. And I hate feeling like that, and I hate thinking it, but it's true. So don't feel you're alone - and for heaven's sake, don't feel guilty.