The Etiquette of Holiday fics

[geoviki]

Like all the rest of you, I'm delighting in the reams and reams of new stories and art (and this year's art is especially terrific!). There's the granddaddy, merry_smutmas, and then others like harry_holidays, hd_holidays, smutty_claus, lupin_snape.... an embarrassment of riches!

As we are encouraging each other as writers and artists, I'm trying to leave feedback as well. One thing that caught my notice, though, has left me feeling uneasy, and I wondered what your views are: In your opinion, is it uncouth to leave concrit that's negative on a fest fic? (Disclosure: this is not anything that's happened regarding my own fic, just other folk's.)

I don't see the author requesting any, for one thing. Personally, I won't do it, but then I never leave anything less than praise unless I'm asked specifically and privately. If I don't like something, I just pass it by. Which unfortunately is the same response to something I've not yet read, so the writer is never sure if I'm unhappy or just behind (if the writer even cares what I think), but there you go.

But IMHO, these stories are gifts. And I can't see criticising a gift. Am I over-sensitive? What do you authors and artists think?

Comments

[bethbethbeth.livejournal.com]

To address only the "why would the recipient be affected by concrit" issue: in the comments that sparked this latest round of posts, there were a lot of instances of "why would you write character X as a bottom? That's totally stupid!" and the like, which...okay, the author only did it because the recipient asked for it.

If you were at a work gift exchange or a family gift exchange and somebody received...let's say a novelty t-shirt that you'd never wear in a million years, and the recipient said "Oh my God! Thank you! I never thought anybody would take my hint that I wanted this!"...would you say loudly "Damn, you have hideous taste and the person who bought it for you was just enabling you?" I doubt it. You might say that later to your friends, but probably not in that setting.

Or..you might. :)

[best-of-five.livejournal.com]

yeah, i don't think those comments count as "concrit" do they? more like "omgspurofthemomentilostcontrolofmybrain" comments :)

yeah, that analogy to fic exchanges still doesn't work for me. i don't buy the fandom as a giant family nor do i think of the fic as "meant for only one person" in a way that the gift is. i mean, in your scenario, if the t-shirt was given to one person and then circulated for everyone to wear? when it was my turn to wear it, i would totally say "this looks hideous ON ME for such and such reasons but the colour and the wording are so clever". that's the closest i can draw that analogy :)

[bethbethbeth.livejournal.com]

That's why I included a group at work, not just family, because no...I don't think everyone in fandom is my sister or brother. :)

But if people were passing the shirt around and saying if anyone *wanted* to wear the shirt, they could, well...I'd do just like I do (these days) when joints are being passed around: I just pass it on and turn to more interesting things.

[best-of-five.livejournal.com]

LOL. fandom as a pot exchange. that's a good one.

omg. if my workplace was that crazy like fandom i would p'bably quit :D