Me too! The last few sex scenes I've written have been quite purposely off-kilter, I think because I was quietly rebelling against the same-old-same-old, you know? I'm intrigued by frottage, and fingering just for the sake of fingering, and maybe letting one person get off while the other chooses to wait and save it for later. And I totally agree with gilded_kage that it's the emotion and personalities that make or break a sex scene for me. Tab A meeting Slot B may have lost all of its titillation power, but I'm still hooked by a scene that lets me in on what the characters are thinking. For example, to my mind it's far sexier to know how Harry feels intellectually/emotionally about the sight of Draco on his knees, about to suck his cock, than to know how Harry feels physically, all turned on and hard and ready, knowing that his cock is about to be engulfed in Draco's hot mouth. (If that makes any sense??)